Parenting Tip: The Power of “Do Overs”

Ever wish you could hit rewind after a parenting moment that didn’t go so well? Good news—you can.

One of the most powerful tools we have as parents is the ability to model humility and repair. That’s where the “do over” comes in.

Let’s say you lost your cool, raised your voice, or responded in a way that didn’t line up with the parent you want to be. Instead of brushing it off or pretending it didn’t happen, pause and offer a do over.

It might sound like:

• “That didn’t come out the way I wanted. Can I try again?”

• “I was feeling frustrated, and I didn’t handle that well. Let’s start over.”

When we offer do overs, we teach our kids that mistakes are part of learning, that relationships can be repaired, and that it’s safe to be imperfect. This is especially important for children who have experienced trauma or stress. Repair builds trust.

And bonus? You’ll feel better too.

Parenting isn’t about perfection. It’s about connection. Offering a do over might just be the bridge back to it.

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